“You don’t get the dog you want, you get the dog you need,” someone once said. I think you get both, at least that’s been my experience. (http://changeofheartstresssolutions.blogspot.com/2012/01/about-dog-training-stress-and-me.html)

Animals have a marvelous way of adapting that we two-legged creatures can do well to emulate. The in-the-moment, I’ll deal with what-is lesson is vital, especially for those of us who live with a chronic disease.

“In order to console myself a bit, before I got depressed and spiraled back into a flare . . . ” Making that connection between how you’re feeling emotionally is empowering, because then you can do something about it, as you have by making it an opportunity to learn some lessons. We are not just a joint, a heart or a ligament – everything is connected and interdependent.

I think the trust you and Alva have for one another will help make the transition easier, for both of you. How fortunate that you are able to provide the care and comfort she needs. What she provides to you – priceless!