Vicky Besley

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Vicky Besley




Worcestershire, England

How long have you lived with RA?

4 years.

What advice would you give to someone who has just been diagnosed with RA?

Make sure you are comfortable with your rheumatologist as it makes the whole process a lot easier. Don’t be scared to ask lots of questions no matter how trivial but most importantly don’t be afraid to ask for help.

Do you use any mobility aids?

Yes I have an electric wheelchair for in the house, a manual wheelchair for going outside in so people can push me. They were hard to accept but they mean I can still do things I enjoy.

How has living with RA helped to improve your life?

Its made me realise how strong I actually am! Its made me stop and enjoy things more and reminded me to have fun it lifts your spirits when you have something to look forward to.

Do you have any visible signs of RA?

Yes my hands are bent over, my left knee has fluid and often swells.

Can you please describe some of your favorite coping strategies for living with RA?

To just smile and get on with it, I tell myself I can get through this, a smile helps.

Can you please describe your current medical (traditional and alternative) treatments?

I have Reiki every week which helps lower my pain levels, also pain killers nothing further (see below).

Is there anything else about yourself that you would like to share?

My treatment has been affected by the fact i also have a heart defect called Tetralogy of Fallot which has had an effect on what treatment I can have and also the level of pain killers I can take.

Comments 3

  1. Marcia GB

    Thank you for sharing your story. So sorry that RA has hit you so hard and that your treatment is limited by other conditions. Being a Reiki Master myself, I am happy to hear that Reiki is helping you manage your pain. You are a true survivor. Keep on smelling those roses!

  2. Melissa

    Thanks for sharing. So glad to see some real faces of Rheumatoid arthritis. I get so tired of the magazines painting a picture of only old people or people with mild to moderate RA or even pictures or commercials that show one patient doing well with an expensive biologic or chemo. Not everyone is successful with treatment. And no matter how you slice it, RA is a chronic painful disease of all ages, race and gender. Praying for a cure. God bless us all.

  3. abcsofra

    What a wonderful attitude you with all you have been given to bear. My heart goes out to you as a fellow ra-er. Perhaps one day there will be a cure for us all. In the meantime you keep on smiling. This has been my motto from day one of diagnoses…and that was going on 14 years ago. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

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