On Acceptance

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Replace ‘vision’ with ‘movement’ and ‘blindness’ with ‘rheumatoid arthritis,’ and this passage couldn’t be any more on-key. Losing control of part of one’s body is (beyond) hard, and is a long, long process that is fraught with fear…but when we stop fighting against how things are and accept our new reality, and move forward from there, we learn, firsthand, that …


What I Did During My Recent Vacation

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I went outdoors. I confronted the cold, head-on. I took deep breaths of fresh air. I stared at amazing cloudscapes. I sat below waterfalls. I hung out with llamas. I connected with my winter “vibe” (i.e. increased pain and inflammation). I started going to sleep earlier than usual—9/10 p.m., instead of my usual midnight…and found that the extra energy really …

Stained Glass

Painting On Life’s Canvas

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Three years ago, right around this time of year, I came extremely close to ending my own life. Not only was my movement extremely limited, but I was also having extended periods of blurred vision. My RA was raging out of control, and the thought of finding a way through the pain and confusion seemed way too daunting, and way …